Hi! I am Lai 😃

I am a passionate, growth loving, transformation inspired individual. And while ‘Mom’ is one of my many titles, being Lai is the most important for me. 

I understand how other folks like to put their children at the top of their care list, but if I do not take care of myself, there is no way I can take care of anyone else.

I love the growth that has come with my years of living and very proud of the greatness to come! I am human and I have been the person who has thought and cared about everyone else before myself.

I am so glad I have been able to see with new lenses because that means I am prepared and more than willing to be of support to you. I am the sum of my conscience. I am the sum of my choices and with the most intentionality, I am present and aware of the transformations that have happened within myself.

I graduated college with a Bachelor’s of Science in Child Development and have been involved in social services and educational work ever since. My passions include recognizing and acknowledging growth, figuring out more ways to stay secure in myself and raising my daughter to have the voice I found as an adult.

You have happened upon this website for a reason and have read this far because you are curious!

Keep reading. 😃

Being Maliyah’s mother has been the most challenging and rewarding task ever bestowed upon me. I love being a mom. I love knowing I have influence and using that to my advantage, daily. I fall in love as being a parent with each interaction I encounter with my child. I love the bond we have built – which is so different than the relationship I have with my own mother. When my daughter was about 3 years old, I decided enough was enough. I was in a deep dark place for so long, blamed my child for things that she was not responsible for and found myself yearning for a deeper connection with her. I will always remember the day we were driving and I consciously told myself I need to make conversation with her.

She is my why. That means, her life, her well-being and her future are the reason I decided to become a parent coach. I want my child to innerstand and know I am there for her, I support her and will work on myself so she does not experience the adverse effects of my childhood trauma. This has been a tremendous amount of conscious hard work. Literal brain shifts have happened within me and I am so excited to be in this frame of mind when it comes to how I operate as a parent.

My goal is to reach people like me, teach and help them to be more aware of themselves, and witness transformations that you dream.

Following my dream means I am the line outside of the generational cycle I have broken. You also have the courage to be the line outside your circle. 

Do it! Dream big! You can and you will.